Don't forget to prepare dishes that your husband loves. She will be glad to know that her son is happy
Organise your house specially your kitchen. Plan out the menu according to her taste and also try to make something new and which you are confident of making. Plan out some outings for her also.
Find out wat sabji she likes the best prepared tat an serve she would really appreciate u fr ths
Just be yourself n show your pleasure that she has come. Introduce her to your friends.Give her attention. Its difficult for a daughter in law to be a daughter but not impossible. Do the things you would do for your mum. Cook for her. If it dies not turn out well ask her to teach u. Im not a mother in law to my sons wife but of enough in age to know that. My daughter is married n I always tell her that. She is very popular at her in laws. Nobidy is worried about her cooking but the munute they see me they tell me that my daughter is well brought up n pray that they have a daughter in law like her. Imagine how I feel. Think how your mom would feel.
Give her compliment say I cann't manage like u how u did with minimum gadgets like we have now
Make a complete three course meal and make it a point to cook the food the way she does at her home.
Be polite n respective to her n plan the menu according her taste u will enjoy
Cook a full meal for her which your husband your mil both like it and a sweet dish You can also make quick and easy Atta laddoo to serve her in morning as winters are still going on You can store it for some days and offer her in morning or evening as they are best for bones in old age
Dont get over stressed. Make the best from you. Simplicity with cleanliness is best policy. Ask ur MIL to teach u their fav dishes. She vl get impressed Dal, pulav/rice, one veg sabji, roti and raita
Mil if non working would like to get engaged in the kitchen....hence let her decide what she wants to feed her son Tk c.
Sunaina keep smiling it will rectify everything if anything goes wrong... Make a to do list what to do and make. Ask your husband any dish she liked most. Plan your day starting morning tea brkfast lunch snacks and dinner and last but not the leasy dessert. and ofcourse planning will help you indoing all the things properly and neatly.
Be yourself. Keep things simple and cook the stuff that she likes. Also make use of her visit by learning a few new dishes from her!!!
Hi sunaina I m a daughter in law too. Nd i m too married one n a half years ago, i know how hard is to impress a mom in law. But be ur self do wat u knw dnt do things what u cnt handle enough beyond ur capabilities...... What ever u dnt knw jst politely asked her to teach you. Nd try too ask her in her a funny way or in a humorous way...... Go out shopping with her. Spend alot of tym as much as u can...... Try to knw her...... If sometym she says anything jst be calm be a good listener....... Thats make u help making place in her heart.....
First of all I would like to know whether u people r vegetarian or nonveg. Also what type of food ur mil likes?? Then I will be suggest u something easy to cook n quickly also
Be easy, try to share your problems with her, be active and enjoy the work you do, and feel happy with her
What I would like to expect from my daughter in law is Transparency, honesty and genuine efforts. Never try to be fake. Accept your limitations and respect her thoughts. Not because she is always right but Yes she has more experiences of being Wrong. And she will definitely not want you to repeat those mistakes. What ever you know , prepare with Love and Confidence. Plan out every thing in advance. My grand daughter sometimes tells me " Dadi milk is less sweet today , plz add your love. I just kiss my palm and adds to her milk and she finishes as she is drinking " Amrut".
Be urself. Go out with her. Make some simple but healthy recipes for her. And tell her that ur husband is always her son first then ur husband.
Yeah . Your husband's mom is coming. Neither an examiner to judge you nor a Critics to find out your mistakes. Be true to your conscious. Don't bother about what others expects from you. Think what you want to do to make her feel comfortable.
I agree with Manisha Shukla, as I'm also a mother-in-law and would like. To be close with her
Just move with her as u will when ur mom visits u...tht will create a pleasant feeling and a perfect rapport..feel free to ask and learn things from her which will bring u both even more closer to each other.. .best wishes to u
I agree with what Manisha ji said. Accepting your limitation and respecting the other always makes you the winner. Keep things in their proper places and pls don't overdo anything.
just b urself dear dikh tha h k aap ko bhut man h unke liye kuch karnr ka bas thoda cleaness ka diyan rakho ghr ko well decorate karo n kuch achha sa bnao nt many things but kuch aisa jo unki choice ho vo khush ho jaengi
Write a wel come board.which will be easily visible, when she will come to your place.
just make her comfortable with your love.She herself will make will make u realise howmuch she loves u.dont worry.all the best
Be yourself, try something simple, easy and quick recepie.. Which can be prepared time n again in case she asks you to prepare it in her presence.....
Your love, respect and kindness are foremost. Make her feel welcomed. Cook her fav food. Spend time with her. And yes the one thing to impress her would be to cook something special. Veg or non veg depending on her choice
I am a mil too. Be polite loving nd make her feel loved. Use this opportunity to form a bond. If there r any dishes that ur husband is fond of ask her to teach u. Greet her with a cup of tea in the morning. Spend time doimg what she likes
Hi, i feel clean up your kitchen first, after all it starts frm there. Then you both can easily cook together. Try to hv the first meal outdoors, so that you' can really chat together. Then plan for next day. Do some precooking & keep. For eg. Roast the baingan for bharta, boil the spinach& sweet corn& keep in the fridge. U can even prepare custard or kheer& eat over gossip time. Hv a bash wd ur friend dear.
Hi sunaina. Don't break your head too much n try to over impress her . Be yourself. Let her also understand you. Bec.. it's a lifetime task.whatever you do ,be organised n hygienic.Involve her in your work . Take her advice.You can also learn so many positive outlook from her. Good luck.
Hello Sunaina... Good to know that..... Make her feel at home n comfortable with your love.. care n warmth. All the best.. Regards.
Hello Sunaina, Just be yourself, Make her feel welcomed,rather you should ask her to give you tips to manage the household,All the best
Take good care of your mother in law till she stays with you...do all that wat she needs and respect is very important.
Prepare the dishes she likes...n...make her feel homely...if u respect her..u wl recieve the unconditional love
Don't get nervous.Stay calm.Serve her some beverages..Talk to her a lot.She is coming to meet you.So give her priority not the dinner.In dinner make the usual dishes.And enjoy your dinner with her.
Make her feel welcomed a good mango lassi or badam milk or Falooda something easy dear it is not competition She will be grateful you Cook for her north indian food gobi or Aloo paratha or some punjabi chole if South some vegetable stew from Kerala or sambar. Breakfast idea some dosas or banana cake or eggless chocolate pudding there are recipes no need oven. It is feel her at home Now is your second mom hope she will be Good to you. Greetings from an European girl who loves India
Hi Make her fav food N avoid laziness Atleast for one day .....make her fav food and arrange candle tight dinner with flower decoration . N give her surprise at the dinner . I m sure she ll love it . If u r doing this thn let me know her reaction All th best