Last week, I went to attend a friend’s wedding ceremony where I saw that my friends were debating on some serious topic. When I went near them, I found that the topic they were debating on was: Which one is more successful – “Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage”? Everyone was in favor of a love marriage. I thought that my blog must be dedicated to love but my instinct said that our parents are much more experienced than us, so their decisions are always right. They always care for our well being and take the right decisions to ensure a prosperous future for us. Truly speaking, which one of these two is the right way to choose our life partner is an unending debate. But can we reach a conclusion about this and decide which marriage is really better?
Marriage is a sacred bond which unites two souls. Everyone hopes to find the perfect partner to spend their life with. In the case of a love marriage, you have the privilege of choosing your life partner on your own. On the other hand, in an arranged marriage, your family chooses your life partner. But we all know that a successful relationship is not created when two perfect people meet, rather it is created when two people come together and overcome each other’s weaknesses.
For a marriage to be successful, two sensible and understanding people are needed. The fact whether the marriage was a love or arranged one, is meaningless. This is just a journey, and you get your partner just by luck. It is your love which drives the relationship to its destination. What do you think? What would you choose – a love marriage or an arranged marriage?
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